This part is better told from her side.

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I remember at that time, I didn’t really think too much about it.

After we finally decided to see a doctor, the focus just naturally went to me.
All the checks… were on my side.

I went for the scan.
Answered the questions.
Followed what was told.

At that time, I didn’t ask why.
It just felt like… this is how it works.

My husband wasn’t checked then.
Not because we decided it that way,
but because that option wasn’t even there in that place.

So I continued with everything on my own side.

Looking back now,
I think it’s something I didn’t realize in the moment.

I was trying to understand my body,
adjust it, improve it…
thinking maybe the answer was there.

There wasn’t any strong feeling about it back then.
No frustration, no questioning.

Just… following step by step,
doing what I thought was needed.

Only later,
I started to see the whole picture a bit differently.