Our Journey
This was our first IVF cycle.
At that time, we weren’t thinking about the whole journey.
We were just focusing on what was in front of us —
one step, one decision at a time.
We didn’t always talk about how it felt.
Some things were just carried quietly along the way.
Only later did we start to see it more clearly.
This is how it unfolded for us.
Trying to Understand
Part 1 — I Didn’t Question It Back Then (Shino)
When we first went to check, the focus quietly fell on her — and at that time, she didn’t think to question it.
Part 2 — We Just Kept Trying First (Shino)
Before seeking help, we spent a few years trying to manage things on our own, hoping it would happen naturally.
Deciding to Move Forward
Part 3 — We Only Had One Chance (Weng)
Before starting IVF, we set a boundary — we would try once, and accept whatever comes.
Part 4 — It Just Felt Like the Next Step (Shino)
For her, starting IVF didn’t come with fear. It simply felt like the next thing to do.
Preparing Ourselves
Part 5 — We Changed Before We Even Knew the Outcome (Weng)
We made changes early, even before knowing if anything would work.
Part 6 — The Part I Didn’t Expect to Do Weng)
Giving injections wasn’t something I imagined doing — but it became part of the process.
Part 7 — My Body Responded Faster Than I Expected (Shino)
Her body reacted quickly to the medication, and she took it as it came, without overthinking.
The Process Unfolds
Part 8 — The Numbers Changed, Quietly (Shino)
From eight to three to one — each update shifted expectations, little by little.
Part 9 — That One Embryo (Weng)
In the end, everything came down to one.
Waiting
Part 10 — The Quiet Days After Retrieval (Shino)
After the procedures, there was nothing left to do — only wait, and sit with the uncertainty.
The Result
Part 11 — I Saw It First at Home (Shino)
Before the official test, she checked on her own — quietly, without telling anyone.
Part 12 — It Felt Like a Gift (Shino)
When the result was confirmed, it didn’t feel like an achievement — but something given.
We didn’t know how this story would end when we started.
We just took it one step at a time.
Looking back,
it was never just about the result —
but everything we went through to get there.
